The Waiter's Notepad

Not all who wander are lost...

M'Lady Lemonbrick
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According to quantum physics, if a tree falls in the forest and there's no-one around to see it, it may or may not be a spoon.

And there's something odd about my feet...

I lean towards Mystical Renegade. I no longer pretend to be human.

I love intelligence and personal evolution. I'm always and ever shall be a work in progress.

I'm into non-violent communication and conflict resolution right up to the point where it becomes clear that the other party only understands one language- then I'm quite comfortable with stopping violaters by any means necessary.

Please read these links first before wandering in- saves explanation. :)

How caring works for me


No one is wise enough or good enough to mould the character of any child. What is wrong with our sick, neurotic world is that we have been moulded, and an adult generation that has seen two great wars and seems about to launch a third should not be trusted to mould the character of a rat.- A.S. Neill, founder of Summerhill

and two from Krishnamurti:
A parent who really desires to understand his child does not look at him through the screen of an ideal. It is only when one feels no love for the child that one imposes upon him an ideal, for then one's ambitions are trying to fulfil themselves in him, wanting him to become this or that. If one loves, not the ideal, but the child, then there is a possibility of helping him to understand himself as he is.

It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.

If you really love your children, don't send them to school. Read the works of John Taylor Gatto, John Holt and Alfie Kohn to understand why this is. Then keep reading- peaceful parenting, attachment parenting, whatever you need to read, so that you know how to protect the beauty that is your child's original self.

DMT page, so I don't lose the link- http://tinyurl.com/6yk4qk

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